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One
thing we can thank all politicians for is their willingness to be served
up as lessons when their quest for the spotlight melts them down to dust.Lesson in point: The tragic demise of
New York'
s Eliot Spitzer.
Leaders
-- self-proclaimed, anointed, or aspiring -- must play by the same rules
of engagement as everyone else in order to stay in the game.
There
are three basic rules here:
First, you can't lead without committed followers.
Second, you can'tkeep the job without other
leaders watching your back.
Third, to have anylongevity as a leader, you mustcherish your relationships more
than your results.
The last point is where most mere mortals crash and burn.Results alone won't protect you from the reality of business cycles.Relationships, on the other hand, are what you can count on when
the inevitable pendulum doesn't swing your way.
In THEZONE, we call them Strategic Witnesses, people of value
who value youand are willing to
stand by you when you need them - and you will.
In
the case of Mr. Spitzer, the silence created by not one colleague showing
up to remind the world of any worthwhile thing he had done as Governor
was deafening. It was also the most telling clue as to the certainty of
his demise.
Simply
put, your "kingdom" will always be as big as the
influence of the people willing to stand with you when the bright lights
are angled to make you sweat.
It
doesn't have to be lonely at the top if you:
Create enduring relationships with Strategic
Witnesses at every step along the way: They will stand by you
without being asked
Share credit for Success: Stealing the spotlight
electrifies meltdowns
Be Deliberate: Everything you do and say tells
others what to expect of you going forward.
Watch Your Language: The words you use to describe
yourself will come back to haunt you if you don't live by them.